Fact Sheets

Relationship Rights
  • Lesbians and gay men have new rights

After a long fight by the lesbian and gay community, from 28 June 1999 same sex couples enjoy most of the same rights in NSW as heterosexual de factos.

  • If you are in a de facto or domestic relationship the changes apply to you. 

De facto relationships are relationships between two adults who live together as a couple. Domestic relationships include those who live together where one provides the other with domestic support and personal care. This doesn't cover flatmates or paid carers.

Other requirements sometimes have to be met. The most important is that, in most cases, people need to have lived together for 2 years.

Important areas where we have rights -

  • Property division on relationship breakdown

Couples and carers can now get court assistance to disentangle their finances without the need for expensive court processes.

  • Decision making in case of incapacity or death

Same sex partners can now get information about sick lovers and participate in vital decisions. We will be able to say good-bye to partners who are dying.

  • Compensation

Same sex partners can now claim compensation if their partner dies in an accident. This also applies to claims for psychological injury. We will no longer face being left impoverished if we are financially dependent. 

  • Stamp Duty

Same sex partners can transfer property to joint ownership without paying stamp duty.

  • Other -

Other areas which are covered include bail applications; notification of partners of patients with mental illness; and provision for partners when a person is unable to manage his/her own affairs. 

  • We're not equal yet

Although we now enjoy many rights, some problems remain and we do not yet have full equality. Changes to the Anti-Discrimination Act and some smaller pieces of NSW legislation still need to be made. Other relationships, including those of couples who don't live together, don't have sufficient legal protection. And there have been no changes made to important areas of law which are governed by the Federal Government, including superannuation.

  • Inheritance

Same sex partners will automatically inherit a partner's assets where they die without a will. However, as at August 1999 these provisions had not come into effect. It is expected that they will commence before the end of the year.

Frequently asked questions:

  • My partner and I want to keep our property separate, can we? 

Yes. It is possible to arrange your property the way you like. Those couples who wish to can make a cohabitation agreement when entering into or during a relationship. You can modify the way the law operates in other ways too - for example, by making a will or appointing a guardian to make decisions in case of illness. 

  • What if we don't live together?

Couples who don't live together are not covered and currently have few rights. The Lobby has proposed that couples who don't live together (or who haven't lived together for long enough) should have rights in some circumstances - for example where they own property together and need help dividing it up or where one is financially dependant on the other who dies without a will. 

  • Do we have to go to court if we break up?

No. This option is only to assist people who need it. There is nothing to stop you just dividing things up. This can be formalised as a separation agreement if you wish.

  • I want the law to stay out of my life, how do I arrange that?

You can limit the application of the new law by ordering your affairs - for example by making a will or appointing a guardian. 

Unfortunately no-one can guarantee the law will stay out of his/her life completely. Sometimes it steps in when it is unclear what should happen - for example when people can't agree or if you die without a will. Where all of this is decided in advance, it's not so likely to be needed. 

  • What if I bring a casual partner home, will s/he be able to claim my property?

No. The rule of thumb is that de facto partners are recognised after 2 years of living together (although this depends on the rights in question). Casual partners have no rights to property. Generally, couples can only apply for a property division after 2 years of co-habitation or if they have a child together.

  • What does a court take into account when it's dividing property?

It basically looks at the contributions that each person has made.

  • Will the changes apply to me and my ex?

If your relationship ended before 28 June 1999, the changes won't apply.

  • But won't I lose my social security?

No, social security isn't affected. Social security is governed by the Federal Parliament. This Act only deals with NSW laws. 

  • Will this fix up the problems with superannuation?

Superannuation is also Federal and has to be dealt with separately. There is a Bill before the Federal Parliament to change super laws so that same sex partners are covered.

 

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